UCSC; PSYCH 165; TONAY
SOME PESKY COGNITIVE
DISTORTIONS*
- All or Nothing:
Seeing things in black-and-white categories. If your performance
falls short of perfect, you believe you are a total failure.
If someone is unkind to you once, you believe they are always
unkind to you. You think if you don't have a fairytale life,
you'll be a street person (e.g., Because I'm 30 and I haven't
married, I will end up old and alone, living with cats who probably
don't even use the litter box--that is, if any cats would even
want me).
- Overgeneralization:
Believing that one negative event that happens to you reflects
a never-ending, hopeless pattern of defeat (e.g., See! It happened
again! I tried to go running this morning and I couldn't get
myself to do it. I will never be in shape.)
- Mental Filter: Picking
out one negative detail from a situation, person, or yourself,
and focusing on it 'exclusively so that your vision of all reality
becomes darkened, like the drop of ink that discolours the entire
beaker of water.' (Burns) (e.g., Okay, sure, Valentines' Day
was going okay, yeah, she brought flowers and made me dinner,
and gave me a loving card....but then she burped during dessert.
Right in the middle. How can I be with a person like that? I
just can't stop thinking about it. I can't get past it.)
- Disqualifying the Positive: Denying your positive experiences and feelings by
discounting them (e.g., "they don't matter," "they
are just a fluke").
- Jumping to Conclusions: Coming to a negative perception of events without
any evidence to support your perception:
a. Mind Reading. Thinking you KNOW what negative thing
the other person is thinking or feeling without asking them.
If they disagree, you believe they are lying! (e.g., If I ask
them if they want to hang out and they say yes, I KNOW it's just
because they are being polite to such a loser as myself.)
b. Fortune Teller. Behaving as if the feared outcome you
believe is guaranteed has already happened (e.g., If I send in
my resume for this job, I know I'll get it, and then it'll be
fine at first, but a year down the line, or maybe a month, I
know I will get bored and frustrated, I'll feel stuck. But I
won't be able to leave. <panics> So I'm not going to send
in my resume at all!).
- Magnification (Catastrophizing) or Minimization: Making too much of events or traits (your negative
traits/experiences; others' positive traits/experiences), OR
making too little of your positive traits/experiences or others'
negative traits/ experiences (e.g., SHE is just perfect in every
way, but look at me! I have flaky skin and obviously grotesque
and unlovable!).
- Emotional Reasoning: Imagining that your negative emotions
reflect reality: "I feel it, therefore it must be true."
(e.g., every time I am around him, I feel nervous. Obviously,
he is judging me.)
- Should Statements: Using
shoulds and shouldn'ts to get yourself going, "as if you
have to be whipped and punished before you could be expected
to do anything" (Burns), and then feeling guilty and bad
about yourself. Alternatively, using shoulds and shouldn'ts to
get others to conform to what you'd like them to do, which leaves
you feeling angry, frustrated, and resentful (because you can't
control another person, and people ultimately do what they feel
is best for them).
- Labelling and Mislabelling: Overgeneralizing from one instance of behavior to
a global personality description (e.g., you approach someone
and are shot down, but instead of saying to yourself, well, maybe
I didn't handle that so well, or maybe that person just isn't
for me you concluce, "I'm a loser"). Also done to others.
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*culled mostly from David Burns' self-help book, Feeling Good,
and Aaron Beck's several books on cognitive therapy.
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